Everyone knows better. The heartbreaking story inflict quite a bit. And quite time erase memories together for quite some time , so if possible, do not want to be faced with this situation much . But in life, it would avoid incompatibilities. When you love someone born then . But defeats to think otherwise before the situation will make your life worse. To modify a new perspective . Then the next step To themselves and new love as well.
One . Forgive yourself
Forgiving yourself with every action you have ever made . Or what ever you say it is a starting point that should be made first. Even if you have always thought of myself as a mistake. Or if you can not do is try to change into a new perspective , like all the mistakes that folks themselves. Do not make mistakes over and over again. And will regret the past .
Two . Forgive her former lover
Whether he will make you regret it 's only one. But when everything happened. It is useless to keep for the next idea. Moreover, the idea stuck with repetitive sequences love old people . It will make you suffer even then . Also makes you forget even more difficult . If this is to start with I would not be defeated. Or even to love yourself, forgive yourself , so after I forgive your ex .
Three . Return to love yourself.
Also, do not forget that no one will love you as well as your own, more so from now I try to do something for myself , the more I like the clothing care , pretty accurate . Indulge yourself without regret later. To act on their dreams or what they like . But never had the chance to do it. For a better future for themselves. And begin to learn to love one another again.
Four . Looking for value in itself.
Although he never saw the good or your own value , it does not matter. What do you value in itself is sufficient. Because this point is so powerful that you have more confidence . And continue to walk steadily. They might start by looking in their own strengths . Then the point is to excel even more. Developed its own weaknesses into strengths . Or make yourself a valuable With a cut off from him completely. This was equivalent to adding value to their own.
Five . Give time to yourself.
Also, do not forget to time yourself when you want to heal the wounds the heart. And show some weakness is better to keep one side like crying when you regret. Vent to close when you feel frustrated . Or do what makes you feel comfortable. The key to happiness for himself as possible. Then the pain , they will gradually disappear without you , without the slightest effort .
